Married life events

These are events for married life.

ID	Name
30000	Unhappy marriage, separate bedchambers
30001	Try to divorce spouse
30002	Protests against divorce
30003	The head of religion interferes
30004	Poisoning stepchildren: Marie of Brabant, Sikelgaita
30005	Spouse accuses woman of poisoning primary_heir
30006	Courtier accuses woman of poisoning primary_heir
30007	Husband accuses spouse of poisoning and murdering primary_heir
30008	Courtier accuses woman of poisoning and murdering primary_heir
30009	Poisonous woman is imprisoned
30010	Poisonous woman is pardoned
30011	Spouse accuses woman of poisoning primary_heir and courtier
30020	Accuses spouse of poisoning primary heir (unrelated to previous events)
30021	Spouse accuses spouse of poisoning her/him
30025	Homosexual spouse
30026	Spouse spreads evil rumors
30027	Spouse asks husband/wife to spend more time
30028	Spouse gets answer
30029	Spouse chastises spouse about rumors
30030	Spouse in prison: spouse is trying to free her/him
30031	Spouse in prison: host is contacted
30032	Spouse to spouse prisoner: Save me!
30033	Spouse is dead!
30034	Spouse is free!
30035	Spouse is thrown into dungeon!
30036	Spouse is warned about consequences of freeing prisoner spouse
30037	Host: is asked to release prisoner spouse
30040	Annoying courtier
30041	Spouse might fire chancellor, etc
30042	Spouse hears about punishment
30045	Push courtier into river?
30046	Courtier drowns
30047	Courtier survives
30050	Give spouse a gift: jewellery
30051	Give spouse a gift: horse
30052	Give spouse a gift: falcon
30055	Wife offers advice: Diplomacy
30056	Wife offers advice: Martial
30057	Wife offers advice: Stewardship
30058	Wife offers advice: Intrigue
30059	Wife offers advice: Learning
30060	Wife suggests new Chancellor: Start
30061	Wife suggests new Chancellor: Husband decides
30062	Wife suggests new Chancellor: The End
30063	Wife suggests new Marshal: Start
30064	Wife suggests new Marshal: Husband decides
30065	Wife suggests new Marshal: The End
30066	Wife suggests new Steward: Start
30067	Wife suggests new Steward: Husband decides
30068	Wife suggests new Steward: The End
30069	Wife suggests new Spymaster: Start
30070	Wife suggests new Spymaster: Husband decides
30071	Wife suggests new Spymaster: The End
30072	Wife suggests new Lord Spiritual: Start
30073	Wife suggests new Lord Spiritual: Husband decides
30074	Wife suggests new Lord Spiritual: The End
30075	Pregnant with courtier: Start
30076	Pregnant with courtier: What to do?
30077	Pregnant with courtier: Deny
30078	Pregnant with courtier: Tell
30079	Pregnant with courtier: Blame
30080	Pregnant with courtier: Husband punish courtier
30081	Pregnant with courtier: Husband punish both
30085	Bored wife
30086	Spouse befriends courtier
30087	Courtier - New Friend
30088	Bored wife: Choose an activity
30089	Bored wife: Lake
30090	Bored wife: Picnic
30091	Bored wife: Hunt
30092	Bored wife: Dinner
30093	Courtier: Perfect activity
30094	Courtier: Failed Activity
30095	Bored Wife: Courtier Dislike
30096	Bored Wife: Friend
30100	Active ***life
30101	Active ***live: Wild ride and Boss in Bed
30102	Active ***live: Gentle and Sweet Love
30103	Active ***life: Killed Spouse by loving him too fiercely
30104	Active ***life: Killed Spouse by loving him too much
30105	Wife, suspecting husband is infertile, tries to produce heir with someone else
30110	Wife offers advice - Muslim: Learning

Event details

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Unhappy marriage, separate bedchambers

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After months of fights, arguments and tears, my spouse suggested separate bedchambers.

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Trigger conditions Is NOT pregnant Spouse: Is NOT pregnant Is NOT a prisoner Is Alive Is NOT Abroad Is in the same location Opinion is greater than –20	Is triggered only by The one year pulse
Separate bedchambers? Sure! +2 prestige Spouse opinion of Character –20 for 5 years (insulted) Let us rekindle our love! +2 piety Spouse opinion of Character +15 for 5 years (Rekindle Love) Whatever you say, honey –5 prestige +5 piety Spouse opinion of Character -15 for 1 year (Whipped)

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Try to divorce spouse

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My new wife disgusts me! I cannot stand it anymore, I should annul our marriage!

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Trigger conditions Number of children is at least 1 Any child: Is a primary heir Does NOT have the trait bastard Spouse: Does NOT have the trait incapable Is NOT a prisoner Is Alive Is NOT Abroad Is in the same location Number of children is at least 1 Opinion is greater than –50	Is triggered only by The one year pulse
I don't ever want to see you again! Triggers the event Protests against divorce Divorces spouse -5 prestige Let us try this one more time +5 piety Opinion of spouse +15 for 2 years (Rekindle Love)

id

Protests against divorce

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My spouse ended our marriage on grounds of non-consummation! I will not put up with this, I am [Root.GetTitledFirstName]!

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Trigger conditions None	Is triggered only by The event Try to divorce spouse - option I don't ever want to see you again!
O holy father, help me! Spouse Triggers the event The head of religion interferes

id

The head of religion interferes

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I asked my [Root.Religion.GetName] father to annul my marriage but he had already been snared by the lies of my former wife! He told me to take her back or else he would place my lands under an interdict.

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Trigger conditions None	Is triggered only by The event Protests against divorce - option O holy father, help me!'
Fine! Does NOT divorce spouse Never! Gets character modifier Unrighteous Spouse Monthly piety: -0.05 Monthly prestige: -0.05 Religion head Opinion of spouse -15 (No annulment!)

id

Poisoning stepchildren: Marie of Brabant, Sikelgaita

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It irks me that my own son will not inherit the title! My husband's heir must be removed, but how?

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Trigger conditions Has the trait ambitious Has the trait envious spouse: Does NOT have the trait incapable Is male Is NOT a prisoner Is alive Is NOT abroad Is in same location Title Rank is NOT King Title Rank is NOT Emperor Any child: Is NOT the current heir Is male Any child: Is the current heir Is a pretender	Is triggered only by yes
By poison! None This is below me! None

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id

Spouse accuses woman of poisoning primary_heir

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Trigger conditions	Is triggered only by yes

id

Courtier accuses woman of poisoning primary_heir

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Trigger conditions	Is triggered only by yes

id

Husband accuses spouse of poisoning and murdering primary_heir

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Trigger conditions	Is triggered only by yes

id

Courtier accuses woman of poisoning and murdering primary_heir

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Trigger conditions	Is triggered only by yes

id

Poisonous woman is imprisoned

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Trigger conditions	Is triggered only by yes

id

Poisonous woman is pardoned

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Trigger conditions	Is triggered only by yes

id

Spouse accuses woman of poisoning primary_heir and courtier

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Trigger conditions	Is triggered only by yes

id

Accuses spouse of poisoning primary heir (unrelated to previous events)

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Trigger conditions trigger = { any_child = { is_primary_heir = yes is_female = no NOT = { age = 16 } OR = { is_ill = yes is_maimed_trigger = yes trait = infirm } } OR = { trait = paranoid trait = cynical trait = wroth } spouse = { NOT = { trait = incapable } is_landed = no prisoner = no is_alive = yes OR = { trait = diligent trait = deceitful trait = ambitious } } }	Is triggered only by yes

id

Spouse accuses spouse of poisoning her/him

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Trigger conditions trigger = { spouse = { NOT = { trait = incapable } is_ruler = no prisoner = no is_alive = yes is_abroad = no at_location = ROOT NOT = { opinion = { who = ROOT value = -30 } } } OR = { is_ill = yes trait = infirm trait = syphilitic trait = paranoid } }	Is triggered only by yes

id

Homosexual spouse

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Trigger conditions trigger = { OR = { trait = ambitious trait = diligent trait = elusive_shadow trait = intricate_webweaver } any_child = { OR = { mother = { character = ROOT } father = { character = ROOT } } OR = { is_primary_heir = yes is_pretender = yes } } spouse = { NOT = { trait = incapable } trait = homosexual prisoner = no is_alive = yes is_abroad = no at_location = ROOT } }	Is triggered only by yes

id

Spouse spreads evil rumors

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Trigger conditions	Is triggered only by yes

id

Spouse asks husband/wife to spend more time

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Trigger conditions	Is triggered only by yes

id

Spouse gets answer

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Trigger conditions	Is triggered only by yes

id

Spouse chastisies spouse about rumors

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Trigger conditions	Is triggered only by yes

id

Spouse in prison: spouse is trying to free her/him

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Trigger conditions trigger = { any_spouse = { reverse_opinion = { who = ROOT value = 20 } opinion = { who = ROOT value = 20 } prisoner = no is_alive = yes is_abroad = no at_location = ROOT NOR = { trait = incapable host = { character = PREV } } } NOT = { has_character_flag = prisoner_spouse } }	Is triggered only by yes

id

Spouse in prison: host is contacted

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Trigger conditions	Is triggered only by yes

id

Spouse to spouse prisoner: Save me!

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Trigger conditions	Is triggered only by yes

id

Spouse is dead!

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Trigger conditions	Is triggered only by yes

id

Spouse is free!

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Trigger conditions	Is triggered only by yes

id

Spouse is thrown into dungeon!

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Trigger conditions	Is triggered only by yes

id

Spouse is warned about consequences of freeing prisoner spouse

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Trigger conditions	Is triggered only by yes

id

Host: is asked to release prisoner spouse

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Trigger conditions	Is triggered only by yes

id

Annoying courtier

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Trigger conditions trigger = { NOT = { demesne_size = 1 } NOT = { trait = humble } NOT = { trait = kind } spouse = { NOT = { has_character_flag = had_annoying_event } NOT = { trait = incapable } prisoner = no is_alive = yes higher_tier_than = BARON is_councillor = no is_abroad = no at_location = ROOT any_courtier = { is_councillor = yes NOT = { character = ROOT } NOT = { opinion = { who = ROOT value = 30 } } OR = { trait = envious trait = wroth trait = paranoid trait = deceitful trait = arbitrary trait = ambitious } } } }

Is triggered only by yes

id

Spouse might fire chancellor, etc

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Trigger conditions	Is triggered only by yes

id

Spouse hears about punishment

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Trigger conditions	Is triggered only by yes

id

Push courtier into river?

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Trigger conditions trigger = { spouse = { NOT = { trait = incapable } prisoner = no is_alive = yes any_courtier = { is_female = no is_councillor = yes OR = { trait = gregarious trait = paranoid trait = cynical trait = zealous } } } OR = { trait = wroth trait = envious trait = arbitrary } NOT = { is_inaccessible_trigger = yes } }	Is triggered only by yes

id

Courtier drowns

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Trigger conditions	Is triggered only by yes

id

Courtier survives

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Trigger conditions	Is triggered only by yes

id

Give spouse a gift: jewellery

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Trigger conditions trigger = { spouse = { NOT = { trait = incapable } is_alive = yes is_abroad = no prisoner = no at_location = ROOT NOT = { opinion = { who = ROOT value = 50 } } } treasury = 50 }	Is triggered only by yes

id

Give spouse a gift: horse

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Trigger conditions trigger = { in_command = no any_spouse = { NOT = { trait = incapable } prisoner = no is_alive = yes is_abroad = no at_location = ROOT NOT = { opinion = { who = ROOT value = 50 } } } treasury = 50 NOT = { has_plot = plot_kill_spouse } }	Is triggered only by yes

id

Give spouse a gift: falcon

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Trigger conditions trigger = { NOT = { religion = jain } any_spouse = { NOT = { trait = incapable } NOT = { religion = jain } prisoner = no is_alive = yes is_abroad = no at_location = ROOT NOT = { opinion = { who = ROOT value = 50 } } NOT = { trait = craven } } treasury = 70 NOT = { has_plot = plot_kill_spouse } }	Is triggered only by yes

id

Wife offers advice: Diplomacy

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Trigger conditions trigger = { is_councillor = no job_chancellor = { always = yes } NOT = { diplomacy = 8 } capital_scope = { NOT = { has_province_modifier = diplomacy_advice } } spouse = { NOT = { trait = incapable } NOT = { has_job_title = job_chancellor } diplomacy = 10 prisoner = no is_alive = yes is_abroad = no at_location = ROOT is_dumb_trigger = no NOT = { has_opinion_modifier = { who = ROOT modifier = opinion_denied_advice } } } }

Is triggered only by yes

id

Wife offers advice: Martial

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Trigger conditions trigger = { is_councillor = no job_marshal = { always = yes } NOT = { martial = 8 } capital_scope = { NOT = { has_province_modifier = martial_advice } } spouse = { NOT = { trait = incapable } NOT = { has_job_title = job_marshal } martial = 10 prisoner = no is_alive = yes is_abroad = no at_location = ROOT is_dumb_trigger = no NOT = { has_opinion_modifier = { who = ROOT modifier = opinion_denied_advice } } } }

Is triggered only by yes

id

Wife offers advice: Stewardship

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Trigger conditions trigger = { is_councillor = no job_treasurer = { always = yes } NOT = { stewardship = 8 } capital_scope = { NOT = { has_province_modifier = stewardship_advice } } spouse = { NOT = { trait = incapable } NOT = { has_job_title = job_treasurer } stewardship = 10 prisoner = no is_alive = yes is_abroad = no at_location = ROOT is_dumb_trigger = no NOT = { has_opinion_modifier = { who = ROOT modifier = opinion_denied_advice } } } }

Is triggered only by yes

id

Wife offers advice: Intrigue

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Trigger conditions trigger = { is_councillor = no job_spymaster = { always = yes } NOT = { intrigue = 8 } NOT = { has_character_modifier = intrigue_advice } spouse = { NOT = { trait = incapable } NOT = { has_job_title = job_spymaster } intrigue = 10 prisoner = no is_alive = yes is_abroad = no at_location = ROOT is_dumb_trigger = no NOT = { has_opinion_modifier = { who = ROOT modifier = opinion_denied_advice } } } }

Is triggered only by yes

id

Wife offers advice: Learning

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Trigger conditions trigger = { is_councillor = no job_spiritual = { always = yes } NOT = { learning = 8 } NOT = { has_character_modifier = learning_advice } NOT = { religion_group = muslim } spouse = { NOT = { trait = incapable } NOT = { has_job_title = job_spiritual } learning = 10 prisoner = no is_alive = yes is_abroad = no at_location = ROOT is_dumb_trigger = no NOT = { has_opinion_modifier = { who = ROOT modifier = opinion_denied_advice } } } }

Is triggered only by yes

id

Wife suggests new Chancellor: Start

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Trigger conditions trigger = { independent = no NOT = { demesne_size = 1 } any_courtier = { OR = { any_lover = { character = ROOT } reverse_opinion = { who = ROOT value = 40 } } is_councillor = no diplomacy = 10 age = 16 is_female = no prisoner = no NOT = { trait = incapable } liege = { NOT = { character = PREV } } NOT = { spouse = { character = ROOT } } } OR = { trait = ambitious trait = diligent trait = charitable } spouse = { NOT = { trait = incapable } is_ruler = yes prisoner = no is_alive = yes is_abroad = no at_location = ROOT } job_chancellor = { NOT = { character = ROOT } } }

Is triggered only by yes

id

Wife suggests new Chancellor: Husband decides

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Trigger conditions	Is triggered only by yes

id

Wife suggests new Chancellor: The End

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Trigger conditions	Is triggered only by yes

id

Wife suggests new Marshal: Start

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Trigger conditions trigger = { NOT = { demesne_size = 1 } independent = no any_courtier = { OR = { any_lover = { character = ROOT } reverse_opinion = { who = ROOT value = 40 } } is_councillor = no martial = 10 age = 16 is_female = no prisoner = no NOT = { trait = incapable } liege = { NOT = { character = PREV } } NOT = { spouse = { character = ROOT } } } spouse = { NOT = { trait = incapable } is_ruler = yes prisoner = no is_alive = yes is_abroad = no at_location = ROOT } OR = { trait = ambitious trait = diligent trait = charitable } job_marshal = { NOT = { character = ROOT } } }

Is triggered only by yes

id

Wife suggests new Marshal: Husband decides

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Trigger conditions	Is triggered only by yes

id

Wife suggests new Marshal: The End

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Trigger conditions	Is triggered only by yes

id

Wife suggests new Steward: Start

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Trigger conditions trigger = { NOT = { demesne_size = 1 } independent = no any_courtier = { OR = { any_lover = { character = ROOT } reverse_opinion = { who = ROOT value = 40 } } is_councillor = no stewardship = 10 age = 16 is_female = no prisoner = no NOT = { trait = incapable } liege = { NOT = { character = PREV } } NOT = { spouse = { character = ROOT } } } OR = { trait = ambitious trait = diligent trait = charitable } spouse = { NOT = { trait = incapable } is_ruler = yes prisoner = no is_alive = yes is_abroad = no at_location = ROOT } job_treasurer = { NOT = { character = ROOT } } }

Is triggered only by yes

id

Wife suggests new Steward: Husband decides

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Trigger conditions	Is triggered only by yes

id

Wife suggests new Steward: The End

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Trigger conditions	Is triggered only by yes

id

Wife suggests new Spymaster: Start

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Trigger conditions trigger = { NOT = { demesne_size = 1 } independent = no any_courtier = { OR = { any_lover = { character = ROOT } reverse_opinion = { who = ROOT value = 40 } } is_councillor = no intrigue = 10 age = 16 is_female = no prisoner = no NOT = { trait = incapable } liege = { NOT = { character = PREV } } NOT = { spouse = { character = ROOT } } } OR = { trait = ambitious trait = diligent trait = charitable } spouse = { NOT = { trait = incapable } is_ruler = yes prisoner = no is_alive = yes is_abroad = no at_location = ROOT } job_spymaster = { NOT = { character = ROOT } } }

Is triggered only by yes

id

Wife suggests new Spymaster: Husband decides

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Trigger conditions	Is triggered only by yes

id

Wife suggests new Spymaster: The End

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Trigger conditions	Is triggered only by yes

id

Wife suggests new Lord Spiritual: Start

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Trigger conditions trigger = { NOT = { demesne_size = 1 } NOT = { religion_group = muslim } spouse = { NOT = { religion_group = muslim } } independent = no any_courtier = { OR = { any_lover = { character = ROOT } reverse_opinion = { who = ROOT value = 40 } } is_councillor = no can_be_spiritual_trigger = yes learning = 10 age = 16 is_female = no prisoner = no NOT = { trait = incapable } liege = { NOT = { character = PREV } } NOT = { spouse = { character = ROOT } } } OR = { trait = ambitious trait = diligent trait = charitable } spouse = { NOT = { trait = incapable } is_ruler = yes prisoner = no is_alive = yes is_abroad = no at_location = ROOT } job_spiritual = { NOT = { character = ROOT } } }

Is triggered only by yes

id

Wife suggests new Lord Spiritual: Husband decides

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Trigger conditions	Is triggered only by yes

id

Wife suggests new Lord Spiritual: The End

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Trigger conditions	Is triggered only by yes

id

Pregnant with courtier: Start

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Trigger conditions trigger = { is_ruler = no spouse = { NOT = { trait = incapable } is_alive = yes age = 40 prisoner = no NOT = { fertility = 0.5 } } is_pregnant = no fertility = 0.6 NOT = { num_of_children = 1 } any_courtier = { is_close_relative = no is_female = no age = 20 NOR = { age = 65 trait = chaste trait = celibate trait = homosexual trait = eunuch is_ascetic_trigger = yes family = ROOT } OR = { any_lover = { character = ROOT } reverse_opinion = { who = ROOT value = 40 } } } }

Is triggered only by yes

id

Pregnant with courtier: What to do?

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Trigger conditions	Is triggered only by yes

id

Pregnant with courtier: Deny

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Trigger conditions	Is triggered only by yes

id

Pregnant with courtier: Tell

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Trigger conditions	Is triggered only by yes

id

Pregnant with courtier: Blame

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Trigger conditions	Is triggered only by yes

id

Pregnant with courtier: Husband punish courtier

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Trigger conditions	Is triggered only by yes

id

Pregnant with courtier: Husband punish both

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Trigger conditions	Is triggered only by yes

id

Bored wife

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Trigger conditions trigger = { in_command = no spouse = { NOT = { trait = incapable } prisoner = no is_alive = yes is_abroad = no at_location = ROOT NOT = { age = 30 } is_smart_trigger = no NOT = { is_inaccessible_trigger = yes } } NOT = { has_character_modifier = for_the_sake_of_love } NOT = { has_character_flag = best_friends_forever } spouse = { any_courtier = { age = 16 is_councillor = no ai = yes spouse = { prisoner = no is_alive = yes NOT = { character = PREVPREV } } } } }

Is triggered only by yes

id

Spouse befriends courtier

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Trigger conditions	Is triggered only by yes

id

Courtier - New Friend

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Trigger conditions	Is triggered only by yes

id

Bored wife: Choose an activity

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Trigger conditions	Is triggered only by yes

id

Bored wife: Lake

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Trigger conditions	Is triggered only by yes

id

Bored wife: Picnic

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Trigger conditions	Is triggered only by yes

id

Bored wife: Hunt

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Trigger conditions	Is triggered only by yes

id

Bored wife: Dinner

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Trigger conditions	Is triggered only by yes

id

Courtier: Perfect activity

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Trigger conditions	Is triggered only by yes

id

Courtier: Failed Activity

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Trigger conditions	Is triggered only by yes

id

Bored Wife: Courtier Dislike

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Trigger conditions	Is triggered only by yes

id

Bored Wife: Friend

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Trigger conditions	Is triggered only by yes

id

Active ***life

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Trigger conditions trigger = { fertility = 0.65 NOT = { is_ascetic_trigger = yes } NOT = { trait = celibate } spouse = { NOT = { trait = incapable } NOT = { trait = celibate } NOT = { is_ascetic_trigger = yes } NOT = { trait = eunuch } age = 40 war = no in_command = no is_abroad = no at_location = ROOT prisoner = no is_alive = yes } NOT = { has_character_modifier = spouse_active_timer } }	Is triggered only by yes

id

Active ***live: Wild ride and Boss in Bed

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Trigger conditions	Is triggered only by yes

id

Active ***live: Gentle and Sweet Love

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Trigger conditions	Is triggered only by yes

id

Active ***life: Killed Spouse by loving him too fiercely

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Trigger conditions	Is triggered only by yes

id

Active ***life: Killed Spouse by loving him too much

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Trigger conditions	Is triggered only by yes

id

Wife, suspecting husband is infertile, tries to produce heir with someone else

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Trigger conditions trigger = { has_lover = no fertility = 0.3 spouse = { NOT = { trait = incapable } war = no in_command = no is_abroad = no at_location = ROOT prisoner = no is_alive = yes NOT = { num_of_children = 1 } NOT = { fertility = 0.5 } } is_pregnant = no NOT = { num_of_children = 1 } any_courtier = { reverse_opinion = { who = ROOT value = 40 } is_female = no fertility = 0.5 has_lover = no age = 20 NOR = { age = 35 trait = eunuch is_ascetic_trigger = yes trait = chaste trait = celibate family = ROOT } is_close_relative = no } NOT = { has_character_modifier = suitable_father_timer } }

Is triggered only by yes

id

Wife offers advice - Muslim: Learning

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Trigger conditions trigger = { is_councillor = no NOT = { learning = 8 } NOT = { has_character_modifier = learning_advice } spouse = { learning = 10 prisoner = no is_alive = yes is_abroad = no at_location = ROOT is_dumb_trigger = no NOT = { has_opinion_modifier = { who = ROOT modifier = opinion_denied_advice } } } }	Is triggered only by yes